We all have times in our lives where things pile up and we feel totally lost…depressed.

 
Not sure how to fight back – and not even sure if we can! OHH YES that’s been me…AND YES YOU WILL ALWAYS get to the other side of this. The choice is get up and get on…or STAY THERE and get tossed around in the aftermath for the rest of your life.
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Years ago I thought I had everything. Big business. Gorgeous baby. Married.

 
Within two years, my son had died, negligence at nursery. My Mother died suddenly…then I nursed my Father till he left too. Surprisingly I wasn’t married anymore – and the money had disappeared. The letters started to arrive and I was over £200k in debt to people I’d never met…hiding upstairs from the bailiffs became a game of "3 LITTLE PIGS’’ with my small son. The wolf could knock and knock but could never get in OUR house. Everything I thought I was…I wasn’t and those we should have been able to trust, we found out we couldn’t (I’ll be honest – THAT had a very big impacton my life).
 

We all have a story to tell and mine isn’t finished yet...

 
Left alone with a 4 year old…no job and a tonne of grief…I had no idea who, or what I could do or who I would be. Hard story but not unusual – we all have a story to tell and mine isn’t finished yet. If you’re still breathing - neither is yours. AND PLEASE – don’t think I’ve not been on my ass since, I have. Long Covid did me no favours…so I speak of RECENT TIMES – not just years ago.
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If this helps just one person or makes someone smile...it’s worth it.

 
The thing is…few of us have so called "perfect lives" here and who you become when you look back at yourself, you can usually make some sense of the slapping. We can’t look down – only upwards…and some ADVERSITY is part of being ALIVE in our times, so this is NOT just for people who are going through it TODAY – I ran this once before and 30% of the people there were more successful and happy than they had EVER been – they were just there "in case" !!! If this helps just one person or makes someone smile, go "Ohhh yeah" …it’s worth it.
 

BIGGER - BETTER - BACK

 
March 19th - 2025 - 7.30pm - 1 hr - Online COST: £6.97 100% Fees are going to ROLDA to feed the animals left behind in war torn countries. If you want to give more you can, but this presentation must be accessible to everyone who needs it.
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